A lot of things happened because of suspicion. Because you suspect but you don't ask or clarify, and that's how you began to suspect, and the more suspicion you are, the more trouble could be created.
Just like when you visit a friend whom you have stopped visiting for donkey years because that friend called and asked you to and had actually said wanted to do something specially for you. However, when the visit is done and that friend have clean forgotten about what you were told earlier, do you ask or do you keep quiet? If you ask, it's like you are demanding. If you don't ask, that friend turn around and suspect your motive, what do you do? Sad to say, i personally don't know what to do. To stop all the visits altogether or to carry on visiting and start building the friendship again??? Puzzled, sigh.........
