Tdy, one of my previous blog friend talk to me over the MSN. He's quite neutral about wat happened. Glad that he still regard me as his friend. At least i know tat not all are angry with me. However, really worried tat others might boycott him if they think tat he also sided me. Actually shouldn't say sided, he's just being neutral. As such, told him to keep mum about the whole matter when he talks to the others. i really do not wish to create anymore unhappiness.
However, i'm not ready to share with him my new blog. Really afraid tat some thing like wat happened in my previous blog will happened again here. Therefore, can only keep these thoughts to myself and probably some unknown viewer (if there's any, but i doubt there will be any). So maybe many years later, when i read my own blog again, i would laugh or would cry again which i couldn't even predict myself. Or would i still be around to read my own blog many years later???
Thursday, August 2, 2007
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
Friday, July 27, 2007
CHEDDAR CHEESE LOAF
CHEDDAR CHEESE LOAF
Make this quite some time ago. Tasty! It's a little like butter cake but softer and sweeter. Couldn't share the recipe becos it belongs to some body else even though this person no longer want to befriend me anymore becos of some misunderstanding. Even though she might no longer be reading this blog, (i have already closed my former blog, actually there's more nicer pictures and thoughts in tat other blog, closing it has cause me much heartache becos some of the pictures there are longer in my PC or thumb drive memory and i no longer can post those things anymore) however, a promise is a promise.
Guess it would takes me very long to forget this incident and i suddenly have becomes a person tat nobody likes or care about. Sigh................. I think this blog no longer has any viewer.............
宁缺勿滥
福建人说的：“无鱼虾也好”。错错错！！！！
广东人说的：“年晚煎堆，人有我也有”。错错错！！！！
我说呀！是要“宁缺勿滥”。
Especially when choosing life partner, 绝不能有“无鱼虾也好”和“人有我也有”的态度，否则会后悔莫及啊！
广东人说的：“年晚煎堆，人有我也有”。错错错！！！！
我说呀！是要“宁缺勿滥”。
Especially when choosing life partner, 绝不能有“无鱼虾也好”和“人有我也有”的态度，否则会后悔莫及啊！
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Lousy Kite flyer
Nowsaday it is really getting more and more difficult to communicate with teenagers. Don't ask about their daily activities, they say you are not concern about their well beings and tat you couldn't be bother about them. Ask and check on them, they say you ask too much and you want to control them. Sigh............. so difficult.................
Some would say one must treat it like flying a kite - must know when to pull and tighten the string and when to release n let go, so tat it would fly high. However, cannot over tighten, otherwise, the string would break and the kite would fly off. But cannot let go too loosely too, otherwise, the kite won't fly high.
Sigh................ i'm definitely a lousy kite flyer.
Some would say one must treat it like flying a kite - must know when to pull and tighten the string and when to release n let go, so tat it would fly high. However, cannot over tighten, otherwise, the string would break and the kite would fly off. But cannot let go too loosely too, otherwise, the kite won't fly high.
Sigh................ i'm definitely a lousy kite flyer.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Lifetime relationships
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real.
But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
My friend forwarded this msg to me, i find it very meaningful, especially the phrase:
"Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on."
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real.
But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
My friend forwarded this msg to me, i find it very meaningful, especially the phrase:
"Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on."
Sunday, July 22, 2007
日夜颠倒
Just don't understand, why are there so many teenagers which live day as night and night as day. When the day break, tat's when they sleep. And when the nights fall, tat when they become active. Living this type of lifestyle, how to find a decent job? At least not in the current economy. This type of lifestyle is so unhealthy. Yet, knowing tat it is unhealthy, yet they lived this type of lifestyle. Just like, knowing that drugs and glue sniffing is back for them, yet they want to touch it. WHY? WHY?
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